DIY YOUR SEPARATION

your no-bullsh*t online toolkit
to support you through your separation and divorce.

I'm ready

welcome

to the new way of divorcing, the old way of divorcing is cancelled.

This digital platform offers you the emotional support a lawyer won’t; and the practical, insider knowledge you have been searching for. Created by acclaimed Divorce Doula and Coach, Nikki Parkinson, she blends over two decades of family law experience with her own personal divorce learnings, to create a one-stop resource for all your emotional and practical needs, pre, mid and post breakup.

Do you need factual, relatable, and jargon-free guidance to help you through the overwhelm?

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The Divorce and Separation
Toolkit

supporting you to DIY your separation

Before → stuck, scared, unsure, chaotic, overwhelmed.

After → calm, clear, supported, educated, confident.

Your divorce roadmap

If you’re navigating divorce & want a clear path forward, having a roadmap is essential to your success.

  • Where to start - pre, middle and post divorce.
  • It starts with you.
  • Self care - not the wishy washy type.
  • Understanding you and your needs.
  • You may no longer be a couple but you are still a family. How to be in a relationship with your ex.

understand the
family law system

Let me show you how to cut through the complicated terms, rules, and processes of the family law system.

  • Breaking down the legalese.
  • Financial Settlements 101.
  • Your children.
  • Do you need a lawyer and how to choose the right one.
  • What lawyers want from you.
  • Divorce v separation

Getting you organised

Do you feel like the inner and outer noise is too much? Do this, don’t do that. Let me help you quieten the noise.

  • Introducing you to my little black book to get you organised.
  • Get lawyer ready.
  • Parenting during and post your separation.
  • Finances.
  • Learn how to communicate.
  • And everything else in between.

DIY SEPARATION

YOUR DIVORCE AND SEPARATION TOOLKIT
$ 497 Pay in Full
SIX MONTH ACCESS
  • For less than $3 a day you get the separation support
    you need. You are worth it!
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DIY SEPARATION

YOUR DIVORCE AND SEPARATION TOOLKIT
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Are you ready to invest in you and future you?

DIY your separation is for you if you’ve been asking yourself any of these questions:

How do I separate?
Will I be okay?
Will my kids be okay?
How do I tell the kids?
What’s the first step in divorce?
Am I getting the best deal?
Will I lose my home?
Where will I live?
How will I manage financially?
Who gets the pets?
Who gets the friends?
How do I rent a home?
How much will this divorce cost me, and my health?
Will I ever bounce back with self-care?
How will this divorce affect my future finances?
Will I ever find love again?

….and every other question on your fear list!

Have questions?

Not sure if it’s a good fit for you? Let’s chat.

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DIY YOUR SEPARATION

THE TOOLKIT YOU DIDN'T KNOW
YOUR DIVORCE NEEDED

A comprehensive workbook to document your separation and divorce. 

Downloads, Checklists and worksheets for each module.

Access to Nikki’s family law “little black book”.

Guest videos and coaching webinars.

Access to our growing resource library.

Free 30 minute Strategy Call with Nikki

DIY SEPARATION

YOUR DIVORCE AND SEPARATION TOOLKIT
$ 497 Pay in Full
SIX MONTH ACCESS
  • For less than $3 a day you get the separation support
    you need. You are worth it!
BUY NOW
BEST VALUE

DIY SEPARATION

YOUR DIVORCE AND SEPARATION TOOLKIT
$ 274 2 x monthly payments
SIX MONTH ACCESS
  •  
BUY NOW

Hi, I’m Nikki

I am a TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Divorce Coach, Separation Strategist, Parenting Coordinator, Co-Parenting Coach, Parents Under Pressure Therapist, family law expert, mother of 3 and unmarried.

I’ve been where you are now. 

I have over 2 decades experience in the family law system and have moved  through my own separation. I am here to guide and support you through your separation and divorce. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarterway, then my help and advice has been specifically deigned with you in mind.

Working with me will provide you with practical and tangiblestrategies, offering you the ultimate; clarity, time, and saving you thousands in legal fees!

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let's debunk some myths

  • Divorces normally end in battles that leave both spouses angry and bitter. False
  • Most contested divorces are settled in court, False
  • The children get to choose which parent they want to live with, False
  • The end of a relationship is a failure, False
  • I don't have to share anything that's in my name, False
  • It's okay to deny contact if the other parent does not pay child support, False
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We have created DIY Separation Toolkit
with you in mind. Here are some
of the things we cover

The practicalities of divorce

There’s no bullsh*t or filler here – just battle-tested tactics that are working right now. A factual, relatable, and jargon-free guide to help you through the overwhelm.

Avoiding decision-fatigue

Practice makes permanent the steps towards a fearless choice.

Getting money wise

Facing finances in a less fu*ckery way. Sorry, but it’s true. The emotional toll of separation can be debilitating. I want to empower you with knowledge so you’re able to consciously navigate through this process, while also saving you time and money on legal fees. 

Insider know how

Let me share with you my two plus decades of family law knowledge. I cannot offer you legal advice, but I can explain it. These are the same steps I’ve taken and my clients have taken to go from rock bottom to getting my life back on track. 

Get legal ready (this does not mean you are going into battle)

Lawyers love an organised client. I know, I worked in the system for more than 25 years. You need the
right people for the right job. We show you how to work with your team for the best possible outcome for you and
your future. Did you know that Law Firms are recommending our Toolkit to clients? It saves them time and ensures
they gather all the information they need for the process.

Are you ready to do this?

I am confident DIY Separation will only improve the ending of your relationship, and the start of your new life. Together, we can make it so much better for you, your children (if you have them), and yes, your ex. Because you may no longer be a couple but you are still a family. 

 

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