Do you want to say goodbye
to the old way of separating, forever?

Welcome I’m so glad you are here

I know you need a clear and practical, step by step roadmap through your separation. That is exactly what I do. You have arrived at the right place.

I am your divorce North Star

here's how we can work together

Coaching

Monthly coaching and mentorship


  • Expert Guidance.
  • Practical Support.
  • Navigate the emotional, legal and logistical challenges.
  • Gain confidence and clarity.
  • Emotional support, stress management and coping strategies.
  • A safe space for expression, emotional processing, and personal growth.
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Separation Support Session

75-minute 1:1 guidance session


  • Personalised First-Step Roadmap. A written plan tailored to your situation so you know what matters now and what can wait.
  • Clarity and Next Steps. Understand your priorities, questions to ask, and what to do next.
  • Practical Guidance. Support with the decisions, conversations, and boundaries ahead.
  • Better Prepared for Professionals. Know who you may need and when.
  • 7 Days of Follow-Up Support. Brief WhatsApp support for clarification and questions connected to your roadmap.
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Ongoing Support

Continued support as you move forward


  • Ongoing Coaching and Mentorship
    Continued guidance as you navigate your separation journey.
  • Emotional Support
    Help managing stress, building resilience and regaining confidence.
  • Practical Strategies
    Tools and resources to support you through every stage.
  • A Safe, Supportive Space
    A place for expression, emotional processing and personal growth.
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Separating is no small or easy feat, I know how easy it is to feel overwhelmed. I am here for you and your family.

START HERE

Are you asking yourself “where do I start?” Start here. If you are pre-separation, acute separation, in the messy or moving through your separation – start here.

in-depth strategy call

Let’s start with a 15 minute free call to see if we are a good fit for each other.

no more unknowns

Together we will create your unique divorce road map. Let me remove your fear, overwhelm and replace it with clarity, strategy and a plan for what now, what next and future you.

Hi I’m Nikki

your divorce & separation expert

I’m here because I know what it’s like to face the uncertainties, heartbreak, and sheer overwhelm of a separation. I am a TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Divorce Coach, Separation Strategist, Parenting Coordinator, Co-Parenting Coach, Parents Under Pressure Therapist, family law expert, and mother of three, I’ve dedicated my career to guiding others through one of the toughest transitions they’ll ever face.

With over 2 decades of experience within the family law system and my own personal separation, I bring a unique blend of professional insight and personal empathy to help you find clarity, strength, and resilience. My approach goes beyond traditional coaching, offering you a safe space for you to explore, understand, and navigate this process with greater ease and wisdom.

I am here for you.

Separation doesn’t have to mean devastation. Together, we’ll take the steps to help you reclaim your life, regain control, and move forward with confidence and purpose.

you may be wondering

Divorce coaching is a supportive process that empowers you through separation by focusing on your future, clarity, and self-awareness. Nikki will guide you in understanding family law, decision-making, and achieving your goals.

A divorce coach helps you plan your future, manage conflict, improve communication with your ex, organise your legal and life matters, and save on legal fees by providing clarity and direction.

No, divorce coaching is not legal advice. A coach supports you in decision-making and understanding the process, but legal advice should come from a lawyer.

It depends on your coach. Nikki will help you save on legal costs by enhancing your clarity and decision-making, reducing the need for extensive lawyer involvement.

Yes, coaching can prepare you for separation, guide difficult conversations, and help you organise for the transition. Nikki can help you at every stage of your separation and divorce.

Are you ready to do this?

Every person will approach separation and divorce differently. There is no cookie cutter approach. You and your family have individual needs. Divorce is complex and can be a lonely place but you don’t have to face them alone. 

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